I thought I wouldn't be attending another Malay wedding for a while after leaving Brunei (I don't know why) so gave away the boys' and my baju to friends. But here in Singapore I found that people dress much casually so it was easy to dress ourselves.
There was supposed to be a big bus coming to pick us up at the bottom of our tower so we gathered there and waited. We waited and waited for over an hour and finally the bus arrived. But that meant we missed out on Nazs' arrival at the reception hall - booooo!
As soon as we got there Shem, the groom was ready to enter to meet his wife.

When we walked into the hall we found Naz hiding her face with some fans:

And Shem had to do some chanting in Arabic. Then they spiced it up with a Kiwi cultural touch - the Haka from Shems' high school! Yap Matthew was there to support Shem too :)
Some more loud Malay drums were played (Oliver really liked it, and somehow the noise put Luca to sleep!).
And they were up on the stage together - what a beautiful couple!!
There was lots of photo taking with their families and friends. Meanwhile we were asked to enjoy some lovely Malay food (we miss it sometimes!). They invited over 1000 people, yes one thousand!! So we didn't stick around too long - eat and go style as you know.
Unfortunately Luca woke up and was very unhappy so we had to leave the reception before they did the cake cutting :( This is the photo I got afterwards at a family BBQ, they had a 3 tier cake with Shem and Naz on top of it - very cute ha!?

While we were waiting for the taxi Shem and Naz came out of the reception hall to get ready for the second part of the day - the Western wedding in town.
They left in this beautiful limo:
We also had only a few hours to get changed and head into town. Busy busy busy day!


















